Are you doing everything you can to change your situation but still feel like you’re stuck? As hard as you try, and every time you feel like you’ve gained a little momentum, it’s like something always kicks you back to square one.

I’ve been at that place so many times in my life, but when I finally figured out what kept holding me back from up-leveling, the whole game changed for me. I want you to learn what I learned so that you can go from where you are to where you want to be.

I had to learn to stop complaining.

The Hebrew definition of complaining means to lodge, to stay overnight. When you complain about something, you prolong your stay at that horrid hotel. The negative situation you’re in lasts longer as you continue to speak negativity.

Complaining is detrimental to your success. 

When you complain you are declaring that you have no power to change your circumstances. However, Queen, the power to change your external environment starts with changing your internal environment. What we often overlook is the realization that doing that ‘clean up’ work requires taking authority over our thoughts and our mouths. Complaining robs us of our leverage. 

You’ve probably heard the story of the children of Israel would didn’t enter the promised land God had promised them because all they did was complain. What if complaining is the thing that stands between you and the promises of God in your life? He promised to give you the desires of your heart. What if the whining you’re doing about your current situation is exactly what’s keeping your success from happening?

When He created us, He designed us with the power to speak what we want to see rather than what we do see. So, God never intended for us to make a fuss about our situation. The children of Israel never experienced the good life God had planned for them because they couldn’t stop focusing on what was wrong in their lives long enough to look up and see what they could have instead. 

Queens don’t complain. We create. Begin to use your words to create what you do want in your life. You were made in the image of God and He said to call those things that be not as though they were. Stop talking about what you don’t want and start talking about what you do want. From there, see if your situation doesn’t improve. See if the areas where you were once stuck don’t start to shift. 

You were created with the power to create the life you crave

Using your words to create is one of the 5-step creation process we dive deep into in the Create the Life You Crave Workshop. Grab your seat today!